• violet08_@lemmy.worldOP
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    3 days ago

    but they let me put their cocks together to suck them at once😒

    is cocks touching less gay than kissing?

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      Kissing is the one thing that crosses the line for some reason, for sooo many situations. “Straight” dudes willing to suck another dude’s dick, but won’t kiss another guy because it’s gross. It’s the same for a lot of other kinks. Threesomes, cuckolding, incest, etc etc

      I think the border lays in the fact that kissing is a normal activity between couples, and that’s real life, whereas indulging kinks can almost be compartmentalized as an extreme form of getting off to porn (ergo fake, fantasy - not real, or “doesn’t count”)

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        I mean also people’s sexual orientation can be different than their romantic orientation, and kissing is more of a romantic thing

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        Kissing is more intimate than sex for many, many people.

        There are lots of people I would fuck but not kiss.

        If the guys are straight, being willing to double team a girl but not make out with each other makes total sense.

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      Among other things, you are there to ensure the heterosexuality of the event for them, so they can explore each other a little bit without fear of commiting. They sound like trad guys and trad guys are raised to think that sexual identity is all or nothing and that if they let in even a little bit of gay their entire identity will shatter. It’s sad that the culture does this to them - they do it to each other, really. Have patience. Let them go at their own pace. Exactly as you would with any partner, with any sexual experience.

      • LifeInMultipleChoice@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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        Meh, I think some people just like what they like. I see nothing attractive about making out with another guy, it’s a hard turn off. Masculine faces just dont do it for me. No problem with dicks though. So if I was in a threesome I’d have no problem with going down on both men and women, but making out would be a no

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      3 days ago

      Yes. Ballsacks are ok too during a DP, but I’m not going to kiss the guy. That’s just weird.