Tailscale runs on Wiregaurd which is ridiculously fast. Also helps we’re located physically near each other on fiber from the same company so less network hops.

Nope! We use it for Jellyfin too which also works great 😸

Gaming with friends and family over Tailscale on my servers; it just works

I am also a developer and agree entirely.

Asking for advice, examples or the occasional boilerplate is at most how I use AI and certainly not integrated directly into my IDE.

For Lemmy I just chose a larger instance and went with it. I’ve considered moving to one more aligned with my interests though hasn’t been much reason to yet.

For Mastodon I went with Fosstodon precisely for my interests as I can better enjoy the local feed.