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Cake day: September 12th, 2025

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  • It might be worth adding that there is some backlash on BlueSky for their shared blocklists recently because they can accidentally catch reasonable people or be militarised to deliberately grab extra people. Or at least that’s my take. Personally I now consider a lot of social media along the lines of “if I might not feel comfortable with you around the wife and kids, then a block is reasonable like not inviting you to the next dinner party” and that having a block that you can click through removes a lot of these issues (collapsed post /comment with no title unless you click type thing)






  • Yes and no

    “Low priority” and “first” are actually pretty different statements. “First” requires pretty authoritarian control over how people spend their time. But the statements are thrown together pretty often and people intuitively accept them. Realistically the world is a bunch of people doing their own thing, and in that world a small fraction of time and resources is spent on space. Some of this ends up being useful technology is developed for the rest of the world too. Personally I’m hopeful for stations and bases doing some of the expensive research for closed loop products and recycling but that’s still a hope and far from a certainty








  • Just a reminder that this thread, and my comments, are in the context of someone saying the OP had linked a particularly bad website for ads, and this person being attacked

    If your position is what you’ve actually written here then I don’t think there is a real disagreement but I am surprised by the effort. There’s only a disagreement if you think it’s reasonable to call out someone for making a comment about the ads on a website being excessive and telling that person they don’t get that privilege because they don’t use the internet your way. Everything that follows is just a retaliatory mirror on the issues with “your way” (yeah it’s another poster not you)






  • Yeah, it’s pretty no win being in a place that tips. You’re just punishing the server if you do anything but a good tip and a good tip is just embedding tipping more

    I usually just do blind maths for the tip but with an accent I always liked asking the server what I should tip and doing it well before I had to pay so I could get a feel for what sort of person it was or if I was missing something and sometimes it was surprising. I ordered six beer cans takeaway on a road trip once and (believing that take away was not usually tipped) asked. Their answer was something like “I’m earning $3 an hour, it’s your call”. Its pretty messed up anyone thinks that’s okay let alone enough people that the system persists


  • Yeah, I just wanted a cheap dig at tipping. I don’t enjoy watching people dancing for me in the hope they get a liveable wage out of it. I’m glad to no longer be living in a place where it is the norm

    Thinking tipping is a good thing might be a (minor) red flag for me actually since there isn’t much too it besides giving the customer an amount of control over another human (and moving who is responsible for wages away from the business)