• quack@lemmy.zip
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    6 hours ago

    We probably shouldn’t be using Discord but you’ve got to meet people where they’re at. Telling someone to just drop a service when all of their connections are there is unhelpful at best.

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      5 hours ago

      What else are you supposed to tell them? Its like an abusive relationship, do we just tell them “oh well” you get something out of it so just stay in it?

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        5 hours ago

        I mean if you want to help someone in an abusive relationship, telling them to just leave doesn’t really work there either, and for a lot of the same reasons. But you can support them in other ways until they’re able to do what’s necessary to leave.

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      5 hours ago

      We probably shouldn’t be using Discord

      It’s a useful tool for a variety of organizational goals. Why should we have to leave? They’re the ones that suck.

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        5 hours ago

        Ultimately Discord is a corporate-owned social media platform, and like all corporate-owned social media platforms their best interests rarely intersect with the best interests of their users. Centralised systems like Discord always end up with a power imbalance between the users and the administrators, and if you break their rules they have it within their power to just vapourise your community without a second thought. Your organisation or community only exists for as long as you toe their line.

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          5 hours ago

          losing complete control to a corporation

          Getting forced off of a community forum every time a business gobbles up the rights to the software is a loss of control.